Death & Mourning

Stone wall with Hebrew letters engraved on a rectangular plaque.

While Judaism places great emphasis on our lives in this world, death is an inevitable end for all of us. Often Jews who have been distant from traditional Jewish practice for their whole lives seek the comfort of traditional Judaism in the face of death. For mourners, whose lives are often turned upside down by death, the traditional practices of mourning can provide structure and comfort. Here you will find resources that address each aspect of the process of navigating death and mourning—from the moment of death, to the burial of the body, the tearing of clothes, the weeklong practice of shiva, and the recitation of kaddish.

 

Latest Rituals

“May we open our eyes to possibility, our ears to dialogue, our hearts to compassion”

Hand holding a lit candle with a paper holder in a crowd of people, with blurred lights in the background.

Poem honoring the memory of Yitzchak Rabin, z”l

Memorial wall with graffiti and photos, honoring Yitzhak Rabin in a public space. Hebrew text is present.

“Shekhinah – Divine Presence, may You comfort us”

Lit candle and white calla lily on a wooden surface against a dark background.

“You still renew my strength, day after day”

Silhouette of a person in a hat sitting on rocks, watching a dramatic sunset over the ocean.

“The once noisy room now / hears only mists of whispers”

Patient lying in a hospital bed with an IV, attended by a person in a white coat.

“Let your example burn through us”

A person wearing a lace collar and glasses, dressed formally, against a plain background.

“Death is my teacher”

full moon over dark landscape

Shiva service with humanist language

A stone with the word Remember rests on a mossy tree stump.