Coming Out

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As gay, lesbian, transgender, asexual, bisexual, and gender-nonconforming Jews have gained more acceptance within the Jewish community, we have sought a Jewish way to “come out”either publicly to our congregations, or privately to our families. Here you will find coming-out ceremonies, prayers, rituals, and personal stories.

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The rainbow spirit inside of you has been lighting up the world ever since the day you were born

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An original song based on Song of Songs composed for a lesbian wedding

You Have Ravished My Heart, My Sister

A blessing celebrating the questioning of sexuality or gender identity.

For Questioning Sexuality

A Purim prayer about having the courage to be who you are

Coming Out As Who You Are

A prayer for coming out and coming home

On Coming Out

A coming-out ceremony based upon the Passover seder to celebrate and honor liberation from the mitzrayim (narrow places) of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender secrecy

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A ceremony commissioned by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation for Coming Out Day, October 11, 2006

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Presence and Absence: Images of the Divine in Kabbalah

In this study of the Zohar, Rabbi Margie Jacobs will guide you in exploring the Shekhinah, the feminine, immanent, indwelling Sacred Presence, through the use of art materials and reflective writing. Four sessions starting May 7, 2024. 

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