Infertility

Historically, Judaism has offered little for women and men suffering with the pain of infertility. Thankfully, over the last 25 years, Jewish women and men have transformed the canon of Jewish ritual. Jewish women have both created new rituals grounded in traditional practices and language and unearthed prayers and rituals from our past written by and for women, responding to their lives and needs. Jewish men have also given voice to their own struggles with infertility through the creation of new rituals and blessings that acknowledge their shared pain.
 

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Traditional blessings for mikveh immersion

Traditional Mikveh Blessings

A poem mourning the loss of one’s uterus and exalting the skill of the surgeon

woman with outstretched arms on a pier at sunrise

A prayer for strength and blessings to be recited before entering the mikveh

silhouette of woman under water

It is customary for pregnant women and women seeking to become pregnant to offer prayers to Rachel, Judaism’s mater dolorosa. Specifically, women visit Rachel’s tomb in Bethlehem, wrap a red cord around the tomb, then cut it into smaller pieces which they tie around their own wrists. This ritual for a pregnant woman is based on this custom.

skeins of red yarn

A prayer that may be said before a medical exam for those undergoing fertility treatment/counseling

hands comforting hands

The author brings to life the Genesis tale of Sarah, Abraham, and Hagar by locating Sarah and Abraham’s infertility as the central factor motivating the characters’ behavior

tree in sinai desert

This essay on grieving the inability to bear children relates the author’s dialogue with her deceased grandmother about whether she has the permission to mourn

woman in profile standing on sand dune in the desert

The couple uses the metaphor of tashlich (casting bread upon the water) as renewal to transform their suffering

ripples on water

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Presence and Absence: Images of the Divine in Kabbalah

In this study of the Zohar, Rabbi Margie Jacobs will guide you in exploring the Shekhinah, the feminine, immanent, indwelling Sacred Presence, through the use of art materials and reflective writing. Four sessions starting May 7, 2024. 

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