Welcoming & Raising Children

Close-up of adult hands with rings holding a childs hand, symbolizing family and unity.

We greet each child with affection and joy. Every baby comes to us full of promise and potential. As parents, we are privileged to welcome them into our families, our communities, and the embrace of the Jewish people. Raising children to adulthood, we encounter many milestones along the way. Children are weaned, lose their teeth, and start school. Some get their driver’s licenses and eventually leave home for good. Here are rituals for welcoming children and for celebrating the milestones on their paths to adulthood.

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“How might we mark the moment of birth and coming into Jewish covenant without focusing on the gender and genitals of an infant?”
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“May you claim your ancient power”
brown skinned woman in black tank dress holding hands and dancing with two brown skinned girls by the ocean with water in the background and sunlight
“We praise you, Shekhinah, / who has given us life”
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“We all have a name / given by the mountains we climb”
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Baby naming tradition matching Hebrew letters of child’s name to biblical verses
A couple smiles at a sleeping baby wrapped in a white blanket with stars, standing together by a window.
“May you grow to be a strong woman”
Smiling couple standing close, holding their newborn baby together.

“We pray that those yearning to conceive, carry, foster or adopt will lead to a joyful outcome”

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“Our tradition teaches that the birth of a child brings with it a new possibility for redemption, for transformative justice, for peace and wholeness.” 

Close-up of a babys feet cradled in an adults hands, wrapped in a soft blue blanket with warm lighting.

This ritual can be woven into an aliyah, another part of a Torah service or can stand alone

A newborn baby peacefully sleeping, wrapped in a cream-colored blanket against a soft gray background.

To be performed on the 8th day or another day

Hands gently cradling a newborn babys head, viewed from above.

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