Coming Out & Affirmation

As gay, lesbian, transgender, asexual, bisexual, and gender-nonconforming Jews have gained more acceptance within the Jewish community, we have sought a Jewish way to “come out”—either publicly to our congregations, or privately to our families. Here you will find coming-out ceremonies, prayers, rituals, and personal stories.

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The rainbow spirit inside of you has been lighting up the world ever since the day you were born

An original song based on Song of Songs composed for a lesbian wedding

A blessing celebrating the questioning of sexuality or gender identity.

A Purim prayer about having the courage to be who you are

A prayer for coming out and coming home

A coming-out ceremony based upon the Passover seder to celebrate and honor liberation from the mitzrayim (narrow places) of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender secrecy

A ceremony commissioned by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation for Coming Out Day, October 11, 2006

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