B'nai Mitzvah

Three people smiling and holding a Torah scroll, with colorful clothing and a warm setting.

B’nai mitzvah parties so dominate the social lives of teens in New York City that, according to a New York Times article, non-Jewish families are holding “faux mitzvahs” for their envious offspring. What is a b’nai mitzvah supposed to be? How did it end up like this? Read our overview to learn more, and check out the many new ways families are meaningfully enhancing their b’nai mitzvah celebrations.

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A beautiful alternative to a candle-lighting ceremony
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Following the synagogue service, a minyan of community members conveys what membership in the community entails.
Circle of women in colorful sweaters touching hands in the middle

A mother’s poem describing her experiences with divorce as they affected her daughter’s Bat Mitzvah

A chain of red and blue paperclips linked together on a textured concrete surface.
The goal of the Remember Us Project is to have each Bar or Bat Mitzvah student remember one individual child lost in the Holocaust.
holocaust memorial
Poem marking the occasion of a child’s Bat/Bar Mitzvah
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A mother’s prayer on the occasion of her daughter becoming Bat Mitzvah

red haired teenaged girl facing the ocean

A beautiful song, a lullaby, about fully accepting our children and offering them complete freedom to become themselves

children from chest down wearing rainboots and holding hands

“It seems like every time I want to write / I can’t / I’m always holding a baby”

Three people smiling, holding a Torah scroll in a synagogue setting.

Blessing for loved ones (partner, children, guest, etc…) on Shabbat or any occasion

A babys hand gently holding an adults finger on a soft white background.

A poem dedicated to women who are crafters of tallitot

spools of thread in a loom

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