Becoming a Jewish Adult

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The path to adulthood is full of twists and turns. From celebrating a bar/bat mitzvah to leaving home for the first time, this is a journey fraught with new freedom, new responsibilities, and an abundance of complex emotions. We offer blessings, prayers, and rituals that help parents and children use a Jewish vocabulary to describe this journey—and to experience it as richly as possible.

 

Latest Rituals

Prayers for b’nai mitzvah students and their parent(s), rabbis, and teachers to be said before and during the b’nai mitzvah celebration

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Original blessing for children in Hebrew and English

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Watch this video to learn some traditional steps for this joyous circle dance!

how to dance the horah

Creating separation and offering blessings moves from their family home to their new college home

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This blessing includes options for crafting the blessing to suit various family configurations

Silhouette of a family holding hands and walking at sunset near the ocean.
“May you soak up every drop of deep nourishment your family provides, seeing yet avoiding bitter waters, choosing and strengthening that which is sweet in your inheritance.”
teenaged girl in sweats sitting on a pier staring at the ocean

A midrash and personal story about how our children teach us the lessons that we refuse to learn as adults

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Blessings and meditations for the new driver and his/her teacher

teenager in driver seat and adult in passenger seat reaching for steering wheel

A mother’s blessing for her daughter’s journey into adulthood

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A blessing for a son, drawing inspiration from our forefathers

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