Mourning & Bereavement

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Traditional Jewish mourning and bereavement practices are designed to help us bear our grief. But sometimes we need something more: a poem that captures our imagination, a creative ritual that addresses the particularity of our grief, a song that speaks to our heart. May you find a measure of comfort in your time of need.

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“Your hands were marked like lines on a map”

wrinkled hands with wedding ring on one finger

Our neighborhood has lost dozens and dozens of community members and beloveds, to gun violence in just the last few years, and we are not alone

A woman with closed eyes and clasped hands in deep thought or prayer, with a blurred green background.

In the midst of wailing…a pause for creating

sunrise over foggy mountains

“When I feel most broken / pulled apart / when every door unhinged / is opened / but feels closed”

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A poem for the end of a difficult time

woman dancing with string lights on a city street

Applying the Jewish ethical system of Mussar to the grieving process

An older couple in white shirts; the woman is covering her face with her hand, while the man talks to her.

A poem on transforming mourning into dancing

Person in a white dress stands in a golden wheat field at sunset, with arms gently outstretched.

Reflection on commemorating loved ones

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“It just became your life, your house always lit up like / Paris at night because you were afraid of the darkness splicing / time ever again”

Small stones placed on top of a moss-covered gravestone.

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