Trying to Conceive

The longing for children shaped the lives of our matriarchs, and it continues to bring joy and sorrow to the lives of many people today. Medical advances have helped with infertility. However, those undergoing treatment often suffer during the process and crave a spiritual element to counterbalance the arduous clinical procedures. 
 

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A prayer for strength and blessings to be recited before entering the mikveh

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It is customary for pregnant women and women seeking to become pregnant to offer prayers to Rachel, Judaism’s mater dolorosa. Specifically, women visit Rachel’s tomb in Bethlehem, wrap a red cord around the tomb, then cut it into smaller pieces which they tie around their own wrists. This ritual for a pregnant woman is based on this custom.

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A form of this touching prayer in modern English

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A prayer that may be said before a medical exam for those undergoing fertility treatment/counseling

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Contemporary Israeli prayer expressing desire for a child

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This prayer aims to bring a spiritual presence to the potentially sterile and technological experience of a doctor’s visit

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Prayer for those having difficulty conceiving

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Biblical verses used to form three prayers before, during, and after artificial insemination

Prayers for Artificial Insemination

A contemporary poem on the desire to conceive

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A prayer, fashioned after traditional tekhinot, women’s prayers, for a child

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