Death & Mourning

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While Judaism places great emphasis on our lives in this world, death is an inevitable end for all of us. Often Jews who have been distant from traditional Jewish practice for their whole lives seek the comfort of traditional Judaism in the face of death. For mourners, whose lives are often turned upside down by death, the traditional practices of mourning can provide structure and comfort. Here you will find resources that address each aspect of the process of navigating death and mourning—from the moment of death, to the burial of the body, the tearing of clothes, the weeklong practice of shiva, and the recitation of kaddish.

 

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A prayer to be said on carrying out the request of a dying parent to remove life support
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A creative vidui to be recited at the bedside of a person near death
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Blessing a dying person with a safe departure and a welcoming presence in the world to come
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A ritual of gratitude for the life of a person who is dying
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Poem by modern Israeli poet Zelda

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A traditional pre-High Holiday ritual of making candles for one’s beloveds

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Description by a mother of her six-year-old son’s response to the death of his stillborn brother

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A ritual divided into three parts: Mourning the Loss, Choosing Life Again, and Communal Support and Blessings

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A personal account describing the author’s experience of losing a baby before rituals were developed to encourage mourning

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A mourning ceremony for twins who died before birth

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