Death & Mourning

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While Judaism places great emphasis on our lives in this world, death is an inevitable end for all of us. Often Jews who have been distant from traditional Jewish practice for their whole lives seek the comfort of traditional Judaism in the face of death. For mourners, whose lives are often turned upside down by death, the traditional practices of mourning can provide structure and comfort. Here you will find resources that address each aspect of the process of navigating death and mourning—from the moment of death, to the burial of the body, the tearing of clothes, the weeklong practice of shiva, and the recitation of kaddish.

 

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A poem to make make space for mourning during the Passover seder

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Ceremony with friends and officiant including song and a ritual handwashing

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A prayer for the year of mourning and the journey of widowhood

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Advice for coping with the devastating loss of a child
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A ritual on concluding a year of saying kaddish

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An article about the power of traditional mourning practices for healing and an idea for a new ritual
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An article discussing the issues around Orthodox women saying kaddish
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Preparing to say Kaddish for an abusive parent on the occasion of their yahrzeit

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A contemporary Jewish poem for mourning and sorrow

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Selecting verses from Psalms on the basis of the Hebrew name of the deceased

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