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Weddings & Commitment Ceremonies

Although you might not find “something blue” on Ritualwell, you will find much that is “borrowed,” “old,” and “new.” Jewish tradition is rich in wedding customs, and we have attempted to bring you some samples from this delightful smorgasbord. You will find pre-wedding customs such as ten’aim (engagement), during which it is customary for the mothers of the couple to break a plate, the bedecken (the veiling of the bride and modern alternatives), and the tischen (literally, “tables,” where grooms and/or brides receive blessings and enjoy other rituals immediately prior to the wedding ceremony). You will also find several complete wedding ceremonies along with a breakdown of the constituent parts and alternatives for them, various ketubot (wedding contracts), ideas for tzedakah (charity), and much more. We also explore weddings and ceremonies not envisioned by the rabbis of old—interfaith marriages and weddings and commitment ceremonies between partners of the same sex.
 

Latest Rituals

A new version of erusin focusing on the vulnerability of intimacy and the holiness of committed relationships

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Seven blessings to offer at a wedding loosely based on the traditional sheva brakhot

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Looking forward to a day when all loving couples can rejoice under the huppah in a marriage recognized by federal and state law

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A ritual meant for a couple to really see each other, as if for the first time, on their wedding day

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A Jewish version of renewing vows to celebrate an anniversary or life change or to re-commit after a particular trying time or marital crisis

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A contemporary tisch focused on bringing grateful awareness to the wedding day

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When, under traditional Jewish law, you can get married and when you cannot, where to hold a wedding, and whom to invite

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Who can officiate at a Jewish wedding? How do you find them, and what should you ask?

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A checklist for planning a Jewish wedding

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What to wear, what to bring, what to do as a wedding guest

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