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Starting a Family

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In contemporary homes, starting a family is often a deliberate choice. The experience of pregnancy, the drama of giving birth, and the miracle of adoption are occasions for joy and wonder. These are also experiences that can be fraught with pain and struggle, reflecting the full spectrum of life and death. We offer prayers for those who are trying to conceive, prayers for pregnancy and childbirth, rituals for parents preparing to adopt, mourning ceremonies for miscarriages, blessings for those struggling with infertility, rituals to prepare for or acknowledge an abortion, and much more. 

Latest Rituals

Prayer for those who want to become parents

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A prayer for all of us who seek care and provide services at Planned Parenthood

Sunlight filters through a foggy forest with bare trees and a ground covered in red and orange leaves.

A blessing of strength and resilience for a premature baby

father son and newborn baby

A ritual to say goodbye to a beloved foster child, modeled on the Jewish baby naming ceremony

People holding large white sheets, standing indoors in a room with shelves in the background.

A challah-baking ritual to encourage joy and laughter for a group of women healing from miscarriage

hands holding round platter with challah

A poem mourning the loss of one’s uterus and exalting the skill of the surgeon

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Miriam’s Cup reinterpreted to highlight the relationship between adoptive moms and adopted daughters

A vintage illustration of women playing musical instruments and dancing in a pastoral setting.

Watch this video to learn more about birkat hagomel, a blessing to be recited after safely making it through childbirth

gomel blessing

Prayer for parents-to-be and health care providers (i.e., midwives or ObGyn) at the beginning of labor

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