Mourning & Bereavement

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Traditional Jewish mourning and bereavement practices are designed to help us bear our grief. But sometimes we need something more: a poem that captures our imagination, a creative ritual that addresses the particularity of our grief, a song that speaks to our heart. May you find a measure of comfort in your time of need.

Latest Rituals

Preparing to say Kaddish for an abusive parent on the occasion of their yahrzeit

Wave foam gently laps against black pebbles on a beach.

A creative ritual to mark the end of shloshim

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Offering an alternative to Orthodox women who cannot or prefer not to say kaddish
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The spirit of this Psalm parallels the Mourner’s Kaddish and, in translation, can be recited in non-gendered God-Language.
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A ritual for taking off a wedding ring

wedding band on black fabric

A modern poetic interpretation

retro clock face

A ceremony following or in lieu of Mincha (afternoon service)

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Sounding a note of optimism
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A poem of release and acceptance

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An article describing the custom of planting a tree in memory of a loved one

Hands planting a small tree in a pot filled with soil outdoors.

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