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Healing Miriam: A Ritual to Prepare for Beha’alotekha

woman in desert throwing sand in arcs
Materials:
  • A translucent blue bowl
  • Cards or sticky notes on which the words are already written
  • Decorative blue ribbons
  • Small paper clips
  • Meaningful objects, such as tambourines, beads, shells, ankle bracelets, etc.
 
(For Zoom participants, invite them to think of words and share them in the chat. Have someone read their words or invite
them to unmute and share their words at the appropriate time.)
 
 
 
Chant: El Na R’fa Na La by Debbie Friedman (sing as niggun first, then give the context below)
 
There’s a legend that while Miram lived, a miraculous well accompanied her and the Israelites throughout the wilderness. When she died, the well disappeared. We know from the text of Beha’alotekha that when Miriam was subjected to leprosy (as a punishment for something both she and Aaron had said, but with only Miriam showing visible signs), the Israelites waited for her for the seven days required to heal her. When Aaron begged Moses to do something, Moses cried out, “El na, r’fa na la”, or as the tropes suggest, “God PLEASE, heal her, PLEASE!”
 
 

Part One

Find a word from this list (or add your own) to describe what Miriam provided for the Israelites. While we are finding the words, I and anyone who wishes can join me in a niggun when they feel comfortable.
 
Vision
Well
Water
Fresh
Flow
Gift
Moon
Presence
Dreams
Prophesy
Music
Beauty
Inspiration
Light
Life
Joy
Hope
Drive
Soar
Swim
Fly
Chant
Luscious
Determination
Spark
Sparkle
Sing
Shade
Comfort
Dance
Timbrel
Rhythm
 
Part Two
 
(Acknowledge in advance that this part may bring back some difficult feelings.)
 
How  do you think Miriam felt to be put outside of  the Israelite encampment  for seven days? Choose a word from this list or write your own.
 
Bitter
Heave
Sick
Ugly
Feared
Rejected
Abandoned
Shamed
Scorned
Tiny
Insignificant
Dehumanized
Erased
Distraught
Weak
Frantic
Repulsive
Robbed
Smeared
Less
Stare
Beneath
Dead
Alone
 
Part Three: Re-filling Miriam’s Well
 

Knowing what Miriam was to the Israelites, imagine what they might leave for her to find JUST at the entrance to the camp: either some of the words used in Part One or physical objects to help her feel seen, heard, valued and to let her know that she’s not alone. When you’ve chosen, please add words to the ribbon and physical objects to the bowl. For those online, kindly put words in the chat if you wish to have them read aloud. We’ll add them to the bowl at a later date. We’ll conclude with the niggun we learned earlier.

 
 

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