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Starting a Family

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In contemporary homes, starting a family is often a deliberate choice. The experience of pregnancy, the drama of giving birth, and the miracle of adoption are occasions for joy and wonder. These are also experiences that can be fraught with pain and struggle, reflecting the full spectrum of life and death. We offer prayers for those who are trying to conceive, prayers for pregnancy and childbirth, rituals for parents preparing to adopt, mourning ceremonies for miscarriages, blessings for those struggling with infertility, rituals to prepare for or acknowledge an abortion, and much more. 

Latest Rituals

The author brings to life the Genesis tale of Sarah, Abraham, and Hagar by locating Sarah and Abraham’s infertility as the central factor motivating the characters’ behavior

tree in sinai desert

Contemporary Israeli prayer expressing desire for a child

little boy in garden

This essay on grieving the inability to bear children relates the author’s dialogue with her deceased grandmother about whether she has the permission to mourn

woman in profile standing on sand dune in the desert

This prayer aims to bring a spiritual presence to the potentially sterile and technological experience of a doctor’s visit

holding hands hospital bed

Prayer for those having difficulty conceiving

hands holding yellow zinnia

Biblical verses used to form three prayers before, during, and after artificial insemination

Artistic background with colorful swirls, featuring Hope in English and Hebrew text.

A contemporary poem on the desire to conceive

round red apple

The couple uses the metaphor of tashlich (casting bread upon the water) as renewal to transform their suffering

ripples on water

A prayer, fashioned after traditional tekhinot, women’s prayers, for a child

woman walking away on beach at sunrise

A contemporary poem that addresses “the stain” of blood which, when trying to get pregnant, “becomes a sign of failure, of sadness, of emptiness, of death”

new moon in pink sky at sunrise

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