Sanctifying Relationships

A couple embraces joyfully in a sunlit forest with golden autumn leaves around them.

Relationships bring people together in a unique connection. This is something to celebrate, whether through the public festivity of a wedding, or in the private reflection of immersion in the mikveh. Sanctifying our relationships elevates these unions and gives them a context of meaning and joy.

Latest Rituals

What to wear, what to bring, what to do as a wedding guest

wedding guests making a toast

Three innovative and creative wedding practices, including a two-act play as wedding ceremony

Bride and groom smiling at each other under an arch during an outdoor wedding ceremony.

This article articulates principles of Jewish ritual as the author uses them to create a same-sex Jewish wedding

two mens hands with wedding rings

An alternative to the ketubah which explicitly rejects the language of kinyan (acquisition) in favor of the mutual language of covenant

bride putting ring on groom's finger

A couple’s first-person account of the process of creating their wedding ceremony

two women with arms around each other from behind

A blessing to be read to two women under their huppah

two women nuzzling noses

Kathy, Joyce, and their rabbi found innovative ways to rework the traditional wedding ceremony to suit their needs as two women

two women kissing

The text of the sheva brakhot in Hebrew and translation, an explantion, feminist considerations, two alternative same-sex texts, and an additional prayer for heterosexual couples to add for same-sex partners whose love is not yet sanctified and recognized in the same way

two simple gold wedding bands

This beautiful Covenant of Love ceremony begins with havdalah and is filled with personal expressions of love and well-chosen readings. This ceremony is both a good example of how a lesbian couple reckoned with tradition and also how to make a ceremony extremely personal.

two women holding hands

A new legal formulation for kinyan as acceptance, rather than purchase

wedding band on a piece of wood

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