Sanctifying Relationships

A couple embraces joyfully in a sunlit forest with golden autumn leaves around them.

Relationships bring people together in a unique connection. This is something to celebrate, whether through the public festivity of a wedding, or in the private reflection of immersion in the mikveh. Sanctifying our relationships elevates these unions and gives them a context of meaning and joy.

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Meant to be appended to the traditional ketubah and written in Aramaic by the late, great Rabbi Saul Lieberman, this clause requires the husband to grant a religious divorce (get) to his wife, should the marriage dissolve. This clause is usually used by Conservative Jews instead of the Orthodox pre-nuptial agreement.

two simple gold wedding bands

An agreement signed by the bride and groom prior to the wedding which abrogates the situation of a recalcitrant husband who refuses his wife a religious divorce

bride and groom holding hands

Text of the standard, traditional ketubah in Aramaic and English

A man in a prayer shawl signs a colorful document at a table with books and papers.

An example of a halakhic (sanctioned by some interpretations of Jewish law) ketubah drawing on precedent from ancient text

A person in a traditional garment writing on a colorful document at a table, surrounded by books.

Example of an egalitarian/personalized ketubah

wax seal of star of david

A thoughtful article about how two modern brides reconciled tradition and feminism in their weddings

bride and groom hands

A brief description of this ritual, traditionally only practiced for the groom, but now embraced by both members of the couple, separately or together

A groom lifts the brides veil at a wedding ceremony with guests watching.

A brief description of this ritual and ways to make it more egalitarian

A groom lifts the veil of a bride surrounded by standing guests at a wedding ceremony.

A mutual bedecken ceremony in which the groom and bride adorn one another with kippot and flowers

man and woman looking loving

A ritual involving both the couple and their parents or other family members

bride with back to camera

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