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Sanctifying Intimate Relationships

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Intimate relationships bring two people together in a unique emotional and physical connection. This is something to celebrate, whether through the public festivity of a wedding, or in the private reflection of immersion in the mikveh. Sanctifying our intimate relationships elevates these unions and gives them a context of meaning and joy.

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A look at the sociological and demographic implications of intermarriage in the Jewish community along with things a prospective interfaith couple should know about Jewish attitudes, family, rabbinic officiation, the ceremony, negotiating the Jewish community after the wedding, and conversion

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A certificate by which a non-Jew joins his/her fate to the Jewish people without formally converting and a marriage contract for a Jew and a ger toshav (resident stranger)

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Sue and Ben wrote a “verbose but helpful guide” to their wedding which is both traditional and egalitarian (incorporating both kiddushin and shutafut)

bride and groom on the beach

An informative wedding booklet which walks the reader through all the traditional elements of a Jewish wedding ceremony

bride and groom in field

A wedding booklet describing one couple’s choices for a traditional-egalitarian Jewish wedding

bride and groom in field

An article about the Jewish wedding feast

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There is a folk tradition that the gates of heaven are particularly open to the prayers of the bride and groom. In some communities, wedding couples are handed small pieces of paper prior to the processional on which personal prayers are written. They read these prayers as they walk down the aisle and while circling one another. This prayer is offered in that tradition.

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A brief article describing the practice of kiddushin (the first part of the wedding ceremony) and modern variations and alternatives

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A new erusin blessing

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These words are addressed to stepchildren standing under their new parents’ huppah

flower girl at wedding

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