The Ancestors Upstairs

Five candle holders: one holds a lit candle, the others have melted wax and are unlit, background blurred.
 
Tonight we open a familiar tin box 
where candles rest, patient as those we’ve lost—
eight lengths of cupboard-cool wax
and a ninth who eagerly volunteers 
to get things started. 
 
I ignite a match and think of our ancestors
as though they were just upstairs 
deciding which TV station to watch, 
wondering if the draft under the door
means anything, 
 
and wait for the small flame
to make up its mind– 
like a shy guest at a doorway 
before deciding the party 
might be worth entering after all. 
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