Self-Authored Tena’im

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Created by a bride and groom in their personal spirit, with an exchange of gifts fulfilling the tradition of kinyan, the “bride price”

Tena’im (Engagement) Ceremony

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A tena’im ceremony based on a traditional version but using a new tena’im contract spelling out the couple’s mutual obligations in marriage

We Immerse in the Waters of Eden

U-sh’avtem mayim b’sasson mimay’nei ha-y’shuah. “Joyfully shall you draw water from the fountains redemption ” (Isaiah 12:3). Water is God’s Life-force. Water is God’s gift to us. Water cleanses, washing […]

Ketubah (Wedding Contract)

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An article about the ketubah, or wedding contract, which describes its history, new ketubot, egalitarian ketubot, and alternatives to the ketubah

Lieberman Clause

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Meant to be appended to the traditional ketubah and written in Aramaic by the late, great Rabbi Saul Lieberman, this clause requires the husband to grant a religious divorce (get) to his wife, should the marriage dissolve. This clause is usually used by Conservative Jews instead of the Orthodox pre-nuptial agreement.

Orthodox Prenuptial Agreement

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An agreement signed by the bride and groom prior to the wedding which abrogates the situation of a recalcitrant husband who refuses his wife a religious divorce

Orthodox Ketubah

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Text of the standard, traditional ketubah in Aramaic and English

Egalitarian Ketubah

A person in a traditional garment writing on a colorful document at a table, surrounded by books.

An example of a halakhic (sanctioned by some interpretations of Jewish law) ketubah drawing on precedent from ancient text

New Ketubah

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Example of an egalitarian/personalized ketubah

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