I Lost a Child But Did Not Mourn Her

A personal account describing the author’s experience of losing a baby before rituals were developed to encourage mourning
A Lullaby for Courage

A new psalm for a woman terminating her pregnancy
Memorial Service for Our Babies and a Reawakening of Hope

A mourning ceremony for twins who died before birth
Prayer to be Said When Preparing to End a Pregnancy

Prayer to be recited when pregnancy must be ended therapeutically
Prayer After Miscarriage or Stillbirth

A prayer combining contemporary words and Hebrew selections from the High Holy Day Amidah (standing silent prayer)
A Prayer of Comfort Following a Miscarriage

A prayer to be said in synagogue for a couple who has experienced a miscarriage
Renew Me Like the Moon: Toward Healing after Miscarriage

Selections and adaptations from a larger ceremony
Creating a Ritual when None Exists

How one woman infused the tashlikh ritual with a dimension for coping with her loss
Havdalah after Losing a Baby

Havdalah ceremony after a miscarriage or abortion
Life in the Womb

A fanciful account, based on the Zohar, a mystical text, describing a baby’s life in the womb, during which time, a candle burns over the baby’s head enabling her to see from one end of the universe to the other and the angels teach her all of Torah.