Week 1: Hesed (Love, Kindness)
As we begin Counting the OmerFrom the second day of Passover until Shavuot, Jews count seven weeks – seven times seven days – to commemorate the period between the Exodus from Egypt and the Revelation at Sinai. When the Temple stood, a certain measure (omer) of barley was offered on the altar each day; today, we merely count out the days., each day’s quality intersects with HesedLit. Kindness It is said in Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) that the world stands on three things: Torah (learning), Avodah (worship), and Gemilut Hasidim (acts of kindness)., inviting us to contemplate various dimensions of love/kindness. We invited writers to reflect on each daily theme as part of Ritualwell’s annual Omer Fundraising Campaign. You may download a full PDF for this week at the bottom of this page. As you gather inspiration for your Omer journey, please take a moment to support Ritualwell so we can continue to offer you free, meaningful content all year long. Thank you!
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Day 1: Hesed of Hesed
The way to begin: wrap love in love, rest head in Palm, cradle body, flow from above unhindered. Father-mother yourself like a new people. Melt at the scent of the Beloved. Remember your names.
—Rabbi Tamara CohenPriest. Descendants of Aaron who served in the Temple in Jerusalem. Today, in the absence of a Temple, Jews continue to keep track of who is a Cohen. A Cohen is accorded certain privileges in synagogue and is forbidden from entering a graveyard or marrying a divorcee. Priesthood is patrilineal – if one’s father was a Cohen, then one is a Cohen.
Day 2: Gevurah of Hesed
Do not give till you bleed.
Bleeding is messy
and is not necessary.
An open heart
has its own strength
its own borders.
Kindness fits
within the space, just so,
so sweetly, like flowers
in a field,
a riot of colors
and glory.
—Stacey Zisook Robinson
Day 3: Tiferet of Hesed
The beautiful splendor of a simple act of kindness is most pronounced when it is done with a loving heart. Act for love and you will find beauty.
—Rabbi Elyse Wechterman
Day 4: Netzach of Hesed
Blessed One-ness,
When I have a choice,
I choose to survive.
When I have a choice,
I choose to listen.
When I have a choice,
I choose to atone.
When I have a choice,
I choose to be kind.
When I don’t have a choice,
I choose to pray.
—Trisha Arlin
Day 5: Hod of Hesed
Profound love has prolific power to produce a peace that permeates the heart and spirit. Its power can heal past pain, create a purposeful present filled with forgiveness, and inspire hope for the future.
—Dr. Tarece Johnson
Day 6: Yesod of Hesed
Part of the foundation of Jewish living is to be found in hesed, covenantal caring and lovingkindness. That kindness is an aspect of divinity that affects how individuals treat themselves and each other, as well as groups and communities. There is no such thing as too much caring, too much love, too much thoughtfulness. The practice of kindness to self and others can uplift and reshape the texture of our lives; it is a key to authentic Jewish living.
—Rabbi David Teutsch
Day 7: Malchut of Hesed
In entering exile with Am IsraelLit. ''the one who struggles with God.'' Israel means many things. It is first used with reference to Jacob, whose name is changed to Israel (Genesis 32:29), the one who struggles with God. Jacob's children, the Jewish people, become B'nai Israel, the children of Israel. The name also refers to the land of Israel and the State of Israel., the ShekhinahThe feminine name of God, expounded upon in the rabbinic era and then by the Kabbalists in extensive literature on the feminine attributes of the divine. embodies malchut b’chesed—sovereignty in lovingkindness. In giving up her throne to suffer alongside her people, the Shekhinah teaches us both grace and empathy.
—Sivan Butler-Rotholz