An Imperfect Healing

Black and white photo of an orchid stem with several delicate, drooping flowers against a blurred background.
 
A thousand times I uttered her Hebrew name.
A thousand times.
Fervently uttering prayers 
for her healing.
A thousand times
I manifested the 
eradication 
of that cancer from your lung, Mommy. 
 
There came a day where 
I saw her spot on the
Mi Shebierakh list as a 
sort of purgatory, 
Trapping us
with the 
false hope of recovery, 
And her
among those that 
still had a chance,
and the will,
to continue their fight.   
 
Now, in her rest, she is released. Her name transferred to a record eternal. 
 
What of a healing for us, 
A healing for the broken-hearted, 
The left behind, 
still longing, 
loving. 
 
May our healing not be speedy, 
But may it emanate
from the heavens. 
May we have the time 
to navigate our grief
with grace
at a pace 
all our own. 
May we touch both the 
peaks of gratitude, 
And know the depths of despair. 
May our journey through this wilderness 
forever change us, 
drawing us closer to her memory. 
 
May the God of our ancestors, 
The One who blessed Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Zilphah, and Bilhah, 
Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, 
Bless and heal 
all who knew not a perfect healing. 
 
Help us to appreciate the perfection of the life that we lost, 
Affirm the strength of our faith, 
And grant us the courage
To take 
one 
step
At a time.
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