Preserve the memory of your loved one with a plaque on our Yahrzeit Wall. Learn More ->

Search
Close this search box.

Fire

Close-up of a lit candle with a melting wax drip and soft flame in the background.
 
This morning, I gazed out my car window to see a breathtaking orange ball radiating oranges, pinks, and yellows amongst the blue sky and puffy, white and gray clouds. My kids and I spoke about how it looked like a fire.
 
Then my heart and mind raced towards the West, where the first responders are still trying to contain deathly and destructive wildfires. Where people have lost their homes, neighborhoods, schools, libraries, and prayer spaces. Where people have evacuated their homes in hopes to be united with their physical possessions that, while they are possessions, still hold so much for them – memories, history, comfort, and strength.
 
Then I jumped back to last week when I watched the flames of our Shabbat candles jump from our bima surrounded by the blessing being sung by the congregation. I thought about how I have always feared fire for some unknown reason, but that as Jews, we find so much meaning in it.
 
Then I jump back to how just a few short weeks ago, we were lighting our Hanukkiyot filled with candles that were all lit. They were shared on our windowsills to share the light – the flames – with the world.
 
Then I paused and took a breath. Each day, the sun will set, and the sun will rise. Each Shabbat, we are guided by the lights of Shabbat, the flames surrounded by the prayers and the community. Each Hanukkah, we look forward to lighting candles for 8 nights and sharing with the world the light these flames bring. Eventually, these fires will be fully contained, but the memory of their flames will never leave the hearts of so many. It will be ingrained on the minds and hearts of those who lost so many “things,” the family and friends of those whose lives were snuffed out, the first responders who saw unspeakable damage and worked with all of their blood, sweat, and tears to try to help – coming from all over the country and the world.
 
We will come together, as we always do, to make fire holy in our lives again. To think about the beauty that contained fire can bring to our Shabbat tables, our windowsills on Hanukkah, and in the beauty that the sun gives and takes away each day. Let the Shabbat lights bring all of this to mind as we truly endeavor to find peace and comfort together.
Facebook
Email

Honor the memory of your loved one with a donation to support Ritualwell

Related Rituals

The Reconstructionist Network

Serving as central organization of the Reconstructionist movement

Training the next generation of groundbreaking rabbis

Modeling respectful conversations on pressing Jewish issues

Curating original, Jewish rituals, and convening Jewish creatives

Get the latest from Ritualwell

Subscribe for the latest rituals, online learning opportunities, and unique Judaica finds from our store.

The Reconstructionist Network